After a while, some couples often experience stagnation in your relationship, manifested in the loss of spontaneity, primary characteristic of being in love, the authentic feel of the early days is diluted to a stop in a series of routine activities of which it seems impossible to get out .
There are no longer romantic, surprising and full of deliberate details emotion and feeling. It often falls in public areas, in the same plans and lack of passion.
This situation bored and worn to the fiercest of lovers.
The routine is counted as one of the most dangerous enemies in the relationship. I always hear complaints such as: "When we were dating I had to dance" "surprised me with love before ... there are no surprises about it", "We do the same all weekend," "for he / she is only important family and friends. " Even with all this universe of complaints, we can not forget that harmful agents such as:
Work stress, children training, financial problems, family sick, job changes, changes in town, among others, directly influence the couple to none the two look to please the other, much less find new and better ways to evolve as a couple.
Only creativity and desire needed to dye each day of magic and charm, again details that they love and surprises that impact the link.
Some Tips to escape the Routine.
Men and women are called to change the course of their relationships, make small changes to the primary structure of love, so that the affective bases are consolidated and strengthened commitment on the other.
1. Back to Share quality time: work, study, children, some sports, can not distract the priority is the couple; hence it is so important that you can share time with quality.
2. Away from such technology: The time shared with friends should be free of phones, cell phones, social networks, chat, computer, or extra work to be done.Attention should be focused on the other.
3. Forget conventions: The couple have an obligation to be happy, leave aside the preset and plan a romantic encounter unexpected day in order to pamper and love.
4. Surprise with small details: Offer some flowers, some chocolates, invite you to walk, back to the movies, go out for coffee, send a note or loving message, you can become the rebirth of this commitment as a couple.
5. Retains a sense of humor: Laughter is good for the spirit always helps eliminate stress and to find solutions to conflicts.
6. Back to Romanticism: it connects us back to the couple and oxygenates renewing the relationship affects.
7. Hold dates without importance: We should not expect anniversaries, christmas or birthdays to celebrate. There are always reasons to do so.
8. Breaking paradigms. Never too late to cook and do market together, playing sports with friends, going to theater, eating out, dancing back, attend concerts
Fair is not to lose heart for fun and share with friends animatedly while boredom and routine lose this race.
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